RSVP and seating arrangements can be such a hardship on brides. To avoid confusion on the RSVP cards, I suggest numbering the back of them and doing a corresponding sheet to match them to. Say card #1 is for John & Mary Adams and it is for only the two of them. Alphabetize a sheet with the name of the guest – the number on the back of their card and how many guests that card corresponds to. This way if John and Mary send back a card that says 4 attending, you can call them, or have your planner call them, to explain the invite was for only 2 guests. This will help you keep your numbers in tact. Also some people do not fill out the RSVP card with a name, so if the number is on the back, you can see who sent the card and proceed. Next week Seating Charts!